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Tuesday, May 19, 2009

We Made it to New York!

Maggie and I in our hotel room in NY


Here we are at our hotel in NY. We left today around 3:30pm and headed to Huntsville to fly out. We went to check in and of course the whole crew was nervous about our bags being over weight. We paid for our extra bag and then the weighing began. Would you know that I had one bag that was 50.0 lbs exactly? One at 49.5lbs, one at 48.2 lbs and one at 49lbs? Another was 51.2lbs but she just let it go! SO GLAD FOR FAVOR. We were high fiving each other and the kids were telling me how good I was! I know, I know we probably looked sort of weird but hey we got over that a long time ago. So no inhibitions!
This must mean that our scales at home are pretty accurate which stinks because I was hoping that they were a little off in my favor. Guess, I won't be getting on them anytime soon since they are THAT accurate.
Back to my story... Going thru Security, was fairly simple but a little awkward with the stroller and our carry bags. It probably is a good thing that they don't weigh 40lbs like I originally had planned. Going through I asked one of the security how he was and he joyfully replied, "Well, I am blessed and highly favored." At first it took me by surprise but I looked right back and smiled, replying, "Me Too!"
We then went on and I got pulled over because my bag appeared to have weapons in it!
As it turned out it was a 5lb cheese block, A pack of crackers and 2- 1lb summer sausage logs!"
Why do I have all that in my carry on? Well, the cheese is for the missionaries because cheese is a luxury in Africa. The sausage and crackers are for Maggie because she is a picky eater and we had no room in the suitcases! After getting put back together, we headed for our gate and when I got on the escalater, my carry bags and book bag fell off the roller cart and I had a mess! I sort of panicked and hurriedly grabbed them up somehow just as I reached the top and none of the straps got caught up in the machine. Whew! We didn't have a long wait to board but Maggie and I were out of breath trying to get all put back into place and she went and got herself a coffee that she thought was iced and it was not and it burned her throat (she's ok) and I left my water sitting in the seat! ugh! The guy at the ticket counter wondered where the baby was so we had to explain that we were adopting and had to take the stroller with us. Maggie told him for the moment that her bookbag was the baby!. He thought that was pretty funny. He was very understanding and let us check it at the gate.
Our plane rides were uneventful except that when we arrived in Washington DC, our plane was delayed getting into the gate and so we didn't have much time to spare. We stopped and got something to eat to take with us and I don't know how we missed the announcement but we finally heard last call for the flight with one minute and made it to the the plane. It was a pretty small plane as the flight from DC to JFK was only 45 minutes. Then when we got out on the tarmack to check our planeside carry ons the stroller would not collapse! Finally, one of the guys attending the outside of the plane got it undone. Again, 3 people wondered why we had a stroller, no baby and had 2 carry ons each. So we explained and they were, oh, ok. Load it on.
Thanks for FAVOR again Lord.
When We arrived at JFK, we unloaded on the tarmack and picked up our baggage and the stroller and again were asked, "Where's the Baby?" by the attendant. We explained and that started the lady asking us about adoption. She had thought about it but had never taken any steps because she didn't think she could afford it. We were faced then with climbing stairs with all this stuff and she picked up the stroller and carried it for us and showed us where to go to get our luggage, all the while inquiring more about adoption. We parted and proceeded to get our luggage off of the luggage thingy and looked around for carts. They were $5 each and way too small to handle what we had.
Then a guy with a LARGE cart approached us and asked if he could help us. At first I was wary, because this is NY and you have to be wary. right? At first I told him know, but he just hung around and then when I realized that I was going to spend a bunch of money on the carts and not be able to push them. I also heard God whisper, "Don't be afraid, you did ask for an Angel to show up in NY and help you with all the luggage didn't you? Well, there he is!" I then asked him what he charged to load our luggage and tote it for us. "Oh, he said, I do not charge, it is what you want to give me." I told him to load the luggage. Maggie and I didn't have to lift any of them. Wonderfully, all of our luggage arrived in tact except one suitcase that is missing a wheel. We can sort of still roll it though. The man then asked me where I needed to go. I told him that my plan was to take the luggage and store it. "But that is in terminal 4. " He replied. " Yes, I know", I answered back. "Well, you have to get a shuttle to take you there or a taxi. I have a man here we can trust. The taxi guy also told us that there was no need to store our luggage but if that is what we decided to do then he would help us get over to terminal 4 and then take us to our hotel if the shuttle couldn't get us. This surprised me. Everyone was so nice and helpful! I was impressed. What hotel are you at? " , the attendant asked me? I told him and he said, "They have a shuttle, and they will take all your luggage with you to the hotel, you do not need to store it here at the airport." Call the hotel for the shuttle. Well, when we stepped out, There pulling up to us was the shuttle. No need to call and no waiting! It was picking up a flight crew, and so I asked the driver if he had room for us and ALL of our luggage. "Why sure," he said, "I believe I can do it. I have no clue how he fit all of that in that van but he did.
Of course, all of our luggage, caused questions by the flight crew and so they were intrigued about us going to Africa and asked lots of questions. Sometimes, I feel embarrassed when people just make us out to be saints for adopting but then again, I am glad that I am able to spread the word about adoption and orphans. I do try to give God the glory without sounding religious or anything like that. The lady in JFK, thought we should go on a TV show and the flight crew thought that we should be on Oprah. Funny, cause I think that would be a little stressful! If they would like to donate to the cause, I don't think I would turn it down!
Our hotel wasn't too far away and it is really nice! They gave us warm cookies upon checkin. Glad I don't have those scales here. The clerk downstairs said we shouldn't have to leave until 8:30am or 9:00am so that means we can sleep a little later than we thought.
We lugged the suitcases up to the 4th floor one by one and upon tryingto get them all down the hall and into our room, we accidently shut the door and left the key inside. So I went downstairs to get another one. Evidently, this happens all the time and it didn't faze the clerk one minute. When I came back up and got he door open, there was a Japanese girl in the hallway, helping Maggie pull the suitcases down to our room! So here we are in NY, planning on ordering room service for Breakfast, getting a good night's sleep and heading out for ur long trip tomorrow. We are going to try to make our carry bags a little lighter since we have a couple of suicase with a pound to spare! Will talk more when I get to AFrica!



Saturday, May 16, 2009

It's almost time!



We are leaving in 3 days! Wonderfully, suitcases are packed and ready. FINALLY! after packing and repacking and repacking AND... hopefully not overweight. We weighed them at Duane's office so hopefully they are accurate enough. We are on the line with virtually no pounds to spare! BTW...for those of you wondering, I DID FIT THE CHOCOLATE AND THE UNDERWEAR IN!!!!
Dinners are in the freezer and sitters lined up. Kids have been lectured.. and lectured and..... so hopefully all will run smoothly.

Here is our flight schedule:
May 19 - Huntsville - Washington DC 6:13P 9:05P
Washington DC - NY 10:08P 11:29P

Stay overnight in NY
May 20 - Ny- Johannesburg 11:35A - May 21 8:45A
May 21 - Johannesburg - Entebbe, /Uganda 2:00P 7:10P

You can contact me in several ways: Notes from friends are always welcomed!!!!

EMAIL: kdcarter@mac.com ecslala@yahoo.com (this email is sometimes easier to access for
me)
SKYPE: my skype name is kdcarter68
( you can call from your computer to either my computer or cell phone there) There is a charge if you call my cell phone but computer to computer is free

CELL PHONE: number is 011 234 0775277010
YAHOO MESSENGER: ecslala@yahoo.com

If the internet is working I plan on posting pictures and blogging for sure.
I can't wait to see what God is going to do!
Please remember Maggie and I in prayer as we travel. We have 4 suitcases, 2 roller carry ons, and 2 backpacks plus a stroller.
Pray God will send an Angel when we have to get all our luggage out on Tuesday night and take to our hotel at midnight.
Pray for favor for us on our trip and that all goes well beyond our greatest imagination!
Pray for the family left here.
Pray for Seora Who will be the only female left in the house! :)
Thanks to everybody and we can't wait to share with you when we see the kids!
Melissa



Thursday, May 7, 2009

Here we come Uganda!

Well, Life is speeding up as we count down the days to leave for Uganda. AHHHHHHH!!! All that has to be done!!!!
I got our plane tickets booked as God sent in the money the day before I needed it! Yay God!!!!!
This is a trip of Faith in all ways for us, but I believe that since we are taking that first step then another God will be faithful to complete all he has started in the past.
He told me a long time ago, "I will not take you on a trip and not foot the bill!" "So, Ok, Daddy God. I am trusting you to take care of the details and I will enjoy the trip."
Thanks to those of you who supplied suitcases and are bringing ties and shirts. That really helped out!
I spent a whole day organizing and obtaining all the forms and papers I have to take with me to bring home the kids and immigrate them into the USA. Talk about Mind draining? But I think I have all my bases covered.
Maggie and I will start our Malaria medicine next week. We tried one on her but are having to change it as it didn't gel with her too well.
I am trying to figure out how to twitter from Africa but I may have to wait until I get there to figure that one. I got my international phone from my dad so I will send a note out with all my contact info. I am setting up skype as well and you can call me for free and of course my email is available when the internet is working.
I am thinking I can get on Facebook as well. We will see.
Notes of encouragement are great when you are in a foreign country and last time they kept me going on days that were rough.
On another note, I had to have an upper endoscopy and ultra sound this week as I have been having increased problems with my reflux.
Thankfully, amazingly and wonderfully, All looks really good! No problems . The Doc thought I might have a hernia or damage to my esphogues from the reflux or an ulcer from all the arthritis meds and pain meds I used to have to take fro my arthritis but there was none!
I am thanking God. I still am having reflux but he is trying me on this new medicine.
It seems that I am getting pics posted on my Facebook faster than my blog. I am so behind on blogging what has been happening. But hopefully one day I will get caught up. (What did I just say??? I am laughing at myself because caught up is really not possible around here... then again, ALL things are possible with God!) Maybe he will bring me a secretary or personal assistant.)

I am excited that I will get to see my friend Hedda in Uganda. You can check out her blog here A Surprise Awaits Us She is traveling 5 days after me to work on the guardianship of her baby. She is the one we met in China while adopting Eli and told us about Uganda. We think this is all funny. We can't cross the South to see each other from Texas to Alabama but we'll travel around the world! ha!
Well, I better run. Got lots to do instead of sitting here on this computer.




Monday, October 13, 2008

We heard form Africa Today!

We got an email from Africa today and they are hoping that Isaiah's passport will be ready next week. Our attorney has been out of country with a job position change and that has been some of the delay. Please continue to pray for us. As far as Allenni and Andrew's situation goes, we don't know anything new.
The missionary there helping me, said he see's the kids every week and they are doing good.
Thought I would share a video of the kids that I found on my computer.
You can turn off the music player below but I think it goes well with the clip.




update on Africa- email sent out Oct. 12

Hello friends and family, I hope this email finds you all well. We are well. I just wanted to send you an email to let you know what is going on in our world. We still do not have a travel date to goto Uganda. We had hoped that Isaiah's passport would have been ready on September 22 but that date came and went with no passport. We heard that he is walking now and that is wonderful news. We hope to hear soon. As far as for Allenni and Andrew, we hear that they are doing well but there is no end in sight as to when they might receive passports. Thanks to all of you who are continuing to keep us in your prayers. I have posted quite a few post on our blog so stop by to see all we have been up to. Up to this point, I have been doing fairly well in waiting but recently I have found that my heart has been aching for my other children to join their family. Though I question God at times with why? and When? I do trust Him fully and know He is working to bring justice for these kids and our family.
I am gearing up for Christmas and will be posting some new paintings, christmas ornaments and notecards. These make great stocking stuffers, so please visit my cafe press store and melissacartercreations.com.
blessings, Melissa Carter
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Thursday, September 11, 2008

GOOD NEWS!!!!

We got word today that Isaiah's passport will be finalized on September 22!!!!!!
I am going to get my baby!
As for Allenni and Andrew, we are not sure but are hoping that in the next 2 weeks some progress will be made towards bringing them home. PLEASE PRAY!

We are headed for vacation for 10 days so Loo for new pictures soon.
I'll have to tell you about the 15 passenger van God gave us last week when we weren't looking!
I'll keep you posted as we hear.


Sunday, August 24, 2008

Update on Africa

Well, there is none. I have written my attorney 3 times and there has been no response.
We still wait.

Sunday, August 10, 2008

Isaiah



These are of Isaiah. Look he is standing up by himself. He is not really holding on to the tree!
I really hate I missed this.

We got photos!





Guess what!!!!????
We got pictures yesterday of the kids!
At the computer, I just broke down and cried.
Allenni and Andrew have lost weight and Isaiah looks sorta sad.
I know they are being taken care of as well as they can be in Uganda. They have great foster families. But I wish they were here and fattened up. I know God will bring them home soon.
Thanks, everyone for your prayers.

Friday, August 1, 2008

update on carter crew

Hello Friends and Family,

Sorry that I have not sent an update recently but my computer crashed and then I had to have it fixed and i have also been out of town.

Really, there is nothing new to tell. We are still waiting. That pretty much sums it up.

As far as any word on what has happened with the grandfather saying he has no idea where the kids are, there is none. WE are trusting God on smoothing this wrinkle out.

I am missing the kids. We are hoping that we can get some pictures taken and emailed to us. if we do, You know I will post them.

Our friend John, has told us that the kids are doing well and ask when are we coming to get them. Allenni and Andrew are very happy in school and Allenni's health is doing better. We haven't heard much about Isaiah.

I wonder if he is walking yet?

His passport was supposed to be ready the first of July but there has been no word on that also.

We did hire that attorney to help us with Allenni and Andrew''s situation and he told us he would hold off on pursuing a solution until I returned to Africa. Ha. I wrote back and told him I was not coming until at least one of the children had a passport. It has been too hard on my family here at home to leave again with uncertainty.

He agreed then he would go ahead and start working on a solution.

things have been quite busy around here. The older kids went to youth Camp for a week and then I went to West Virginia for a week for a women's conference with some friends. that was a much needed girl trip. (I thank God for my new girlfriends! -- you know who you are! ) West Virginia will never be the same! This Friday, A Japanese college student, Koki,will be coming to stay with us for 2 weeks until school starts back. Koki stayed with us last fall some.

I have also been in this mood to clean out everything not necessary in life. So all this week have been cleaning out every nook and cranny. Looks like we might have a good yard sale in the Fall.

Now if I can only get my kids to do the same to theirs!

We are asking prayer from all of you.

As a lot of you know, in the past, we have dealt with some major issues with our daughter, with not attaching,bonding etc. to the extent of sending her away for 10 months to get therapy for her and respite for us. Through all of those experiences, god has somewhat led Duane and I into ministry to help other parents and kids suffering through this.

For the past 16 months she has done beautifully and we have praised God for her healing. She accepted Christ as her Savior and also has been growing tremendously in her walk with Christ.

Over the past 2 weeks though, it has been like taking a lot of steps backwards. A lot of the old stuff is resurfacing and we know it is God showing us that the root of the problem has not all been dealt with.

Duane and I also have grown spiritually over the past 16 months , and know that what Maggie is dealing with is a spiritual problem. Satan does not want her to succeed and therefore fights us all against her reaching her full potential.

Please pray for wisdom on our part, unconditional love on our part, and healing on her part and accepting the love on her part.

Our whole family is experiencing spiritual warfare recently and we would love you to lift us up if you think of it.

We also ask your prayers As our family steps into ministry. This ministry will require a lot of us but we can't wait to see where God is going to take us and what He is going to do.

Some of you may have noticed that I have added a new blog. I am trying to broaden my horizons and spread the word about orphans and adoption. I can also post video on this blog and you can see what books i am reading and other favorite stuff. I am still keeping my journey to me blog.

Since my computer crashed, I lost all my address books, so if you happen to read this somewhere else instead of receiving it by email, send me a note to add you to my mailing list.


If you are reading this and don't want to, send me an email and i will delete you! Lol


Much Blessings and Love,

Melissa Carter

Wednesday, July 23, 2008

Update on Isaiah


update on Isaiah

Hello all,
I got word today from Isaiah's attorney and he told us that he was pretty busy but would possibly advise us on how to proceed with the procedure of registering the kids as refugees.
He also told me that he has not even submitted Isaiah's passport application yet!
That now I don't understand because we did all the running around and signature gathering needed for the passport application BEFORE I left. The only thing we needed was the written Guardianship Decree from the judge which was issued and picked up on June 2.
Needless to say, I am disappointed. But know that It will come in God's timing. I am not going to try to figure it out.
At this point, I have no idea when we will travel to get any of the kids.
I am enjoying being with my kids here but miss the other ones.
Blessings, Melissa

Update on Allenni and Andrew

Update on Allenni and Andrew

Well, It has been a couple of weeks since I have sent an update, so since the house is quite for a few minutes, I thought I would let you all know what is happening. I do have an entry that I have been working on about more adventures while I was in Africa but have not had time lately to write. So maybe sometime soon I will get it posted.
We really haven't heard much until the end of last week.
Allenni had another bad asthma attack and has a pretty nasty infection on her scalp but we wrote and got medication for her so hopefully she is doing better.
After sending numerous emails to A&A's attorney and hearing nothing, I finally wrote another one requesting he respond immediately and lo and behold, he did!
He said the children needed to be registered as refugees before they could get a passport.
I must be honest, I was a little irate reading this. For three weeks, I had been trying to find out info and then he tells me this. I could have taken them and started the registering process while I was there. In fact, I inquired about it while there and my attorney told me not to pursue it. The day I left Africa to come home, my attorney was supposed to be meeting with the prime minister's office and was supposed to let me know what was going on. So for 3 weeks, I have been trying to find out what happened in that meeting. I could have had someone already take them to start that process. When we met with UNCHR last time I was in Uganda, they told me the process takes 6mo. to a year.
So we are praying for a miracle that it WON'T take that long.
So, I wrote back to the attorney and was very nice, asking how we start the process and how long does he think it will take, etc.
I got an email yesterday back from him basically telling me that he was finished with my case and no longer would be of any help to me. I was on my own to pursue the refugee status and passports.
In a way, I was relieved that he quit because much wasn't getting done with him anyway.
Isaiah's attorney is going to help us along with my friend John.
If Isaiah's passport gets finished, I am hoping to travel at the end of July to go get him.
We know God has a plan for bringing our kids home and we will trust Him. We have decided to not try to spend our energy to figure God out but to spend it Praising Him and rejoicing in All He has in store for us and our kids.

Here are the prayer request specifically:
1. That the refugee registering process will be smooth and uncomplicated.
2. That Isaiah's passport would be completed without any problems.
3. That my health would continue to improve.
(I am gaining strength but continue to have a low immune system and keep getting infections of various sorts and it looks like I might have to have root canal on my front tooth)
4. Praise-- We had asked prayer about some decisions and guidance we needed while in Africa that had to be made before we returned to the USA, Well, ---God took care of the burden and problem we were having so we did not have to make a life changing decision. So we want to thank him for that.

Well, better run, We have no children tonight and my hubby asked to take me out for dinner!
Thanks to all of you who have been praying for us. We do appreciate it.
Love and Blessings,
Melissa

Back home! oh the Fun!

back home -oh the fun!

Well, I have been resting this past week and am feeling so much better. It is good to be home. It is much more hot here though! Welcome to Alabama!
The kids are good and we have enjoyed just being in the same house together. I am real proud of them. They have matured some and it is good. They have been taking care of me and it is actually good for me to get back into my role as mom though I have the feeling that they don't always appreciate that! Ha!
Things that have been the "norm" around here for years, just went out the window while I was gone.I have discovered that if you have a BIG family you have to sort of run it like an organization. There have to be some boundaries and rules or utter chaos will ensue so over the years, we have installed "norms". This cuts down on waste of time, money and energy. Our lives are much more peaceful now that we work as a team. Believe me, there have been many things we have tried and we have sort of worked out our own system, pulling things here and there that work for us. I expected to come home to utter disorganization but was pleasantly surprised that there wasn't too much out of order! There were only a few things, that I had to set back in place. I will just share a few with you and maybe you will get a glimpse of what it is like in the Carter household and maybe you will get a few laughs!
I have enjoyed doing things like cooking meals for them since I have been home but the girls have become so adept at it, that it is sort of like I'm coming in and taking over THEIR job.
I also came back to my kids who have "their TV shows" they have to watch on TV. What? In our home before we left, rarely did we ever watch TV unless it was educational. Maybe 2 hours a week? Now the TV was on 5 hours a day? Ben obsessed over the weather channel, Maggie, had to watch "ZOE" (Who?) Eli was stuck on Sponge Bob, Graham couldn't pick just one show he loved and Nathaniel searched high and low for anything to do with racing. Seora, well, she is a movie person. Being the mean mom I am, I decreed Off with the TV and showed them where the swimming pool was!
Speaking of the pool, I was amazed at the amount of towels being used. Typically, our norm is, you get one towel per week for the pool and one towel per week for your shower. "HANG IT UP TO DRY, It will be ready for you when you are ready for it."
But... They were getting a NEW towel every day for the pool AND their shower and for their buddies who were coming over to swim with them! The laundry room had a mountain of towels to climb over! I mean think about it! You have 8 people using 2 towels a day times 7 days in the week and you have to wash 112 towels a week!!!! That doesn't even include the Friends!
I told them this wasn't a Resort. "Keep your towel or drip dry."(Smile)
Which reminds me about washing. Can you comprehend how much laundry cycles through this household? A LOT!
We have certain days that a specific person's clothes can be washed on. For example, Monday is Seora and Maggie's day. If their clothes don't appear in the laundry room on that day to be washed, they are out of luck.
I came home to find some of my children, making a regular habit of washing their pair of shorts and shirt ONLY, because they couldn't make a decision of what to wear today and liked what they wore yesterday but it was dirty! So, after a lecture on how much money it cost to wash only a pair of shorts and shirt in a non emergency situation, I think they may have gotten the point. :)
Another major concern was the amount of food being consumed! Gone was the norm of three meals a day and 1-2 reg. portioned snacks and eat in the kitchen, dining room or outside.
In was a free food for all, whenever, wherever, whatever and however much you wanted!
Seora did ask me if I was going to lock up all the food now. Ha! Ha! LOL
After reassuring her that was not a plan of mine, I explained to them, that food was there if they were hungry but the "norm" was being put back into place. Eat in moderation. Eat meals when they are prepared.
Sooooo.... it is good to be back home and work out all the quirks that come with running a big family.
Having kids is NOT boring! There is something always happening!
Well, summer school is in session, (Because kids around here thought the work I left for them to do was too hard to do without a tenth time explanation. )(SMILE) So I must run. I promise to write more about our Africa trip very soon.
Melissa

video of Isaiah on his birthday

Watch this cute video!

Catchup on jinja Trip

Catch Up - Friday before Jinja

Well, after waiting around the house ALL week for the attorney to call to tell us when a court date would be we found out that the judge he was waiting on had been on vacation and so we were waiting for him to come back! He could have told us this several days ago. but alas that is the way things go around here. We had made plans to go to Jinja for Friday and Saturday night but then our attorney called and wanted a briefing with everybody on Saturday morning. so that knocked out Friday in Jinja. Friday we decided to get out of the house with the kids and decided to take them to the "zoo"here and to a hotel where there is an indoor pool and playground. (The same one that had the monkeys.) Well, Our driver arrived late, then another person came by thinking it would be a good time to do business but we finally got out and going. We then had to go towards town to a store to buy some food and swim gear for the kids and so by the time we reached Entebbe(about 30 minutes) and the parking lot of the wildlife center, rain began blowing in off of Lake Victoria so we decided to go to the hotel first instead. We arrived at the hotel and paid our fees and the kids, Richard and Duane got in the pool. I stuck my feet in. As I had been sick, I didn't think it was good for me to get too cold and boy was the water cold! Allenni and Andrew were just shivering but refused to get out! Isaiah had fallen asleep which worked out perfect as he was sick too and would have pitched a fit if I had not let him swim. He absolutely loves water. I was the picture taker. Duane helped teach the kids some swimming techniques and Richard was very curious and watched too. He had never been swimming before and looked like a little kid. It did my heart good to see them all having fun.
Before swimming, we ordered lunch knowing it would take about an hour and sure enough, it did. The food was pretty good but the kids looked at it funny and of course Allenni snarled her nose as it wasn't rice or matoke. (It was chicken salad sandwiches, though by the menu, I though I was ordering something else). Anyway, I also ordered what I thought was grilled vegetable kebab on a stick and these interesting looking "things" came out. For sure it was some indian food that sort of tasted like styrofaom with tumeric and curry on them. Oh, well.
Like I have said before, nobody is in a hurry here and so they wait until everyone, I mean everyone, has finished their last morsel of food before bringing the bill. I finally asked for the bill, but the waiter just told me the total. But I have learned here to ask for a reciept to make sure all things are kosher and correct. So I did. Well, he said it will take some time. So we waited for another 20 minutes. (SMILE) Duane is learning patience here. (SMILE). He brought the bill, and I didn't have exact change. So.... guess what? We waited another 15-20 minutes for the change. Ha! So by the time we got out of there, we didn't have time to go to the zoo. We headed back to Entebbe and stopped on the wayside to buy Matoke, cabbage and tomates for three people for three days. Isaiah's auntie is coming in for the court hearing on Monday and is staying at the pastor's house and Esther is cooking for her.
I must admit, I am a little nervous. You know, the thoughts of "What if she sees how well he is doing and wants him back?" What if she changes her mind about wanting him back?" But really, I shouldn't worry, I know God gave this child to me. So I prayed handing my fears over to God. He is so good to calm the soul.
Well, on Friday night, Isaiah slept pretty good except for the congestion and bless his heart, I had to put a pillow up under the blanket and prop him up a little to ease his breathing and suction his nose out.(Thankfully I remembered to purchase one of those suction bulbs for babies and bring it.)
Saturday came and we had to be at the attorney's office at 11am. So we were to be ready by 8am. We were but everyone else wasn't! Go figure!
But we finally got on our way and half of the people who were supposed to go with us didn't show.
We arrived at the court house only to find the attorney not there! Not surprised!
We then located him by phone through which he told us to go to his associates office next door at the hotel. So we left our van at the high court and walked across the street to the Grand Imperial Hotel. John our coordinator, taking Scott's place got to the hotel and we ended up in a shopping mall that was in the hotel. As none of the fashion stores looked like attorney's offices, John stopped and asked. "No, no attorney offices around here. Try around the hotel on the street." So off we went, to try the street. But I really do think God sent us on that little detour to remind me of something, because there in very big letters on a large glass store front were the words,
GOD IS ABLE, GOD PROVIDES clothing store. I smiled to myself, at God's humor. He wanted to remind me that HE was in control, taking care of all the details. HE IS ABLE, All by Himself to complete these works He has started. HE is ABLE to PROVIDE all that is needed. The strength, the approvals, the guardianship, the passports and the money. Frankly, He knew I needed to be reminded of all that, so he took me on a little detour. I nudged Duane and pointed to the sign and he grinned, knowing exactly why that was there. We both were encouraged.
Back to the search of the attorney's office. We went around the hotel and walked all the way down the sidewalk but still found no office. Then we were told to walk across the street and find him in that building! That building was a post office. So, John asked an attendant. He then told us to climb three flights of stairs and there we would find the attorney. We did that and voila! we found his office. He was sitting at a big table waiting for us. Around here, direct directions are not neccessary, just general ones. I must admit, I was a little irritated, first because I was not feeling well and Mama Beatrice was not feeling well and we had the baby and had forgotten the sling to carry him in. But we finally found the attorney indirectly.
After he briefed us, asked us some questions and made us a little nervous about how to direct the judge as "My Lord" any time we were spoken to, and told not to spiritualize or use the word ministry in talking to the judge, we left. On the way back to the van, I stopped at the hotel to use their bathroon and told John, we would catch up to him at the High Court.(You always take advantage of a good bathroom if one comes available in the midst of Africa) Duane went in with me and we went to the front desk and asked where the toilet. The man directed us and after business was completed we headed back out. As we passed by the front desk and said, "Thank You", the attended replied,
"All is well?", "Yes, we said, All is well." and smiled as we left. What is interesting is the choice of words this man chose. You see, days before, a friend had emailed me and told me to read about the Shunamite woman in 2 Kings 4. That even though the circumstances pointed to her son being dead, she told Elisha, "All is Well". She understood that God's power was more real than what the circumstances told her. So, I had been contemplating about this phrase for somedays now. God has been teaching me to look to him and say, "All is Well" because it is in his hands, and to have the clerk use those exact words, Well, it made me notice and be reminded that truely all is well, if God is in control.
We arrived at the van safely, after cautiously crossing the road and the crazy traffic with no African to give us que when the proper time to cross was. Let me just say, Pedistrians do not have the right away!
We headed back to the house to get ready to leave for our weekend trip to Jinja.
That in itself is another story!
Duane teaching Allenni how to kick
Duane teaching Allenni how to kick

Andrew all geared up
Andrew all geared up

Allenni ready to swim
Allenni ready to swim

This is the life
This is the life

Enjoying lunch
Enjoying lunch

makeshift bed for Isaiah
makeshift bed for Isaiah

Dedication , part 2

Pastor Ron, Andrew and David talking to us
This Child is the Lord's
Prayer- Giving him to God

Dedication cont. Part 2

Wednesday. continued
Duane and I were talking about this tonight. The labor pains when giving birth are hard and hurt and sometimes you cry and scream but you have to hang in there and BREATH!!!!! DEEP BREATHS!!!! because you know there is something wonderful happening. Your emotions go up and down between joy and pain. Between elation and giving up. It is all natural to do this. You push and push and finally a new one is welcomed into the world. And extreme joy fills your soul because you know this child is yours and the fruit of your labor. The same is with the struggles of adoption. It is not easy. The labor pains are not exactly physical but the emotions are very real and pretty much the same but over a longer time period!
But I know that in the end, I am going to have children who are going to be welcomed into our family. The fruits of my labor will appear. So, I will not give up. But I might cry and ask why is it taking so long???? In the process. I know my God has promised me that He will prevail for the justice of these children and therefore I will trust His Word.
When I am weak, He is strong.

Today, Wednesday, while we were sitting around waiting for the attorney to call, Darlene came down and asked us if we wanted to go into town with them and then get some lunch.
We quickly said, Shoot yeah! And within minutes, we were on our way. We ran errands with them and shopped for souvenirs a little ourselves. (And if Duane Carter wants to shop, he is REALLY bored) We then went to this really great Italian place and first Dennis tried to order pepperoni pizza but they didn’t put pepperoni on the pizza just red peppers. The waiter showed us a picture of peppers on the placemat on our table so we would understand. I then ordered my artichoke pizza but they didn’t have artichokes so I ordered a pineapple, ham pizza and Dennis ordered a cheese pizza and they were VERY good. Darlene and Duane ordered these pork skewers that were delicious.
Anyway, sorry about all the details, Every little outing is exciting here!
We came back home and I had begun to feel pretty bad with aching all over and sore throat and coughing, so I went to lay down. By supper, I told duane that there was no way, I could even walk up to supper and I just wanted to lay down. After a while, I started to feel better and went in the living room to the couch. Duane had this same stuff a few days ago. That is one thing I don’t like here. I can’t seem to shake sickness. I get over one thing and get another. God is faithful and keeps us going. Much prayer would be appreciated for our health.
While Duane was gone to dinner, I called Charles our attorney and he said he got the person to sign the document needed for the passports but they wanted to talk to immigration about something. But he would try his best to get the passports printed tomorrow. PLEASE PRAY!!!!
(Thursday)
That is about it for today folks.
Thanks for your prayers and awesome support and encouragement. We are trusting God for miracles.
(ok, it is after midnight here and the whole village of Seguku is going wild now for the last 20 minutes. They have been watching a soccer game for a few hours now and evidently Uganda won.) I sure do wish I had them 10 pairs of earplugs sitting in bathroom in the USA right now)

Isaiah's 2nd birthday (Really his first) & Dedication


Testing the cake
This is really good! Who thought of this? Great idea!

I'm addicted! Birthdays are great!



May 21, 2008
Saturday- Tuesday

Well, I haven’t written what has really gone on in the last several days so will try to document it here.
We went Thursday to change our plane tickets and the earliest they could get us out to leave is Tuesday the 27th.
At this time of the year it gets harder to rebook because flights are all full. KLM said we really couldn’t change them again. So we said ok, We are here til the 27th.
We had hoped for a court hearing today but didn’t get one and our attorney said that he was filing on Friday we would have one on Monday.
Scott and Brenda who have been helping us on this adoption left on Monday to return to the States for 3 months, but between John, Scott’s assistant, and me, I think we can figure the rest of the steps out.
So, come Friday, we did pretty much all I explained in the previous post.
Saturday, I was determined to bake Isaiah a birthday cake and had gotten the ingredients from Esther. There was a mixer in the house kitchen we are staying at and so it was a snap to whip a cake up from scratch. I made a big one and a little one for Isaiah to dig into. Now it really gets exciting! The cakes mixed up fine but I couldn’t for the life of me figure out how to get the oven lit. Even duane came in there to try to figure it out. The stovetop worked so I knew the gas tank was full but the oven wasn’t lighting. I finally called, Brenda to get Darlene’s phone # because she had lived in that house before but Dennis her husband was there so he told me just flip it on and it will light in a minute or two.
So I did. A few minutes later the pilot lit and the oven started heating. Or so I thought. After about an hour the oven was still less than 150F! So I turned the oven off and tried to decide what to do. I got to thinking, they bake things on open fires, I wonder if I could bake a cake ON TOP of the stove???
So I found a big pot and put a little water in the bottom and set the little cake batter bowl inside of another and put a lid on it. But after a few minutes I realized I would have a very moist, steamed cake that I wouldn’t be able to decorate if I did that. And I didn’t have a pot big enough to hold the big cake.
So I decided to take it up to the guest house to bake. ( I was so trying to avoid that hike up those stairs.) That was my only option.
We called Richard our driver to go get Isaiah from Mama Beatrice’s house and Duane went with him and got him. After they returned, I had Richard stay a few minutes so he could DRIVE us up the hill to the guest house!! (Melissa, you’re a genius! Or just plain lazy!)
That worked out well as we had the laptops, the baby, the cake stuff, and the baby bag to carry.
I then had Richard to leave the van and told him I would cll him when we needed to go back home!
Well, my cake got baked and I borrowed the decorating tubes and etc. that I brought to Esther and had Isaiah’s cake decorated in no time. It was great watching him figure it out and decide he really liked this cake thing!
I posted a video on the iweb page, but it keeps saying it can’t publish it because of my internet connection.

Isaiah spent the night on Saturday and I rigged up a little foam mattress beside the bed with a mosquito net over it and he slept pretty well. He woke up about 2:30 hungry and did not go back to sleep until 4am! He was happy singing and laughing and wanted to play. He finally went back to sleep and slept until about 9am. He is a fitful sleeper and cries out a lot. It really soothed him when I reached out my hand and patted him and he would go back to sleep.
Sunday, we awoke to dark clouds and then it started raining. We had planned on going to the second service which is in Luganda because Isaiah was getting dedicated. Well, we decided we were not going to try to go down the hill in the rain with a baby. The red mud gets pretty slippery and we Mzungus are not good at handling rushing water and mud. I was disappointed that we were going to miss this but we changed clothes and decided to have our own service. At about 11am we heard a van and there was Richard, sent by Mama Beatrice from church asking us if we were coming for the program. I explained that we didn’t handle the rain and hills very well and he thought that was funny. We changed back into our church clothes quickly and in a few minutes were headed to church. We arrived and Mama Beatrice ushered us in to sit on the front row in a packed church. Talk about grand entrance and being late! Pastor Ron was preaching with an interpreter and so we got to hear the sermon in English. Isaiah did pretty well during service but got pretty ansy and wanted to crawl. In our rush I did not bring but one toy and no snacks! What kind of mother am I?
He got all dirty with red dust from the floor but he was happy.
Then one of the ushers went into the pastor’s office and brought out a mat and spread it out on the floor and we put the baby on it. Isaiah seemed to know he couldn’t go off the mat and was happy to play there.
Six people received Christ as their Savior that morning and that was awesome. Afterwards, Isaiah was dedicated and it was great! Richard took our camera and took some great photos.
We arrived back home about 1pm and I fixed lunch for us and then it was naptime for us all.
At 5:30 we headed up to the guest house(I walked this time) for fellowship with all the missionaries and to say goodbye to Scott and Brenda.
Isaiah spent the night again as we had to leave for town on Monday morning, hoping for a court hearing.
It didn’t happen. Of course we were disappointed but God encouraged us with his Word. We took Isaiah back to Mama Beatrice’s house telling her if we got a call for court, we would get him again.
We also didn’t get great news from Charles about A&A’s case either. All we can do at this point is to put it all in God’s hands. He has moved mountains for us in the past where these kids are concerned and I know he will do it again. We are trusting in Him. So here we are on Wed. night and still we see no progress but we are still believing it can happen.
We have been able to talk to the kids through email and yahoo IM and that has been good but we all are missing each other terribly. Though they don’t come out and say it directly, they want a normal routine and stability as much as we do. It has been four months since we have had that in our lives. So, I will admit, though I am trusting God completely in this, I am tired and weary and just want to go home and be with all my kids. The emotional roller coaster is not fun and it is hard. (to be continued)

More pics of Uganda


Lake Victoria at Sunset
Lake Victoria
Boiled eggs Anyone?
Esther and Melissa
The "African" 7/11
These are some pictures from different places.

The others are scenes from around town and at Lake Victoria

Sunday, July 13, 2008

Signs around Kampala

Driving around Kampala you can't miss the signs that are of interest. Being a word nut, Duane couldn't refuse to photograph some of them


The Fed EX Deliver truck...uh, bike
Party of Jesus
Parable similar to The Tortise and the hair
Spirits highly flammable

Prayer Request -Miracles Needed

Hello everyone,
Just a short note to ask you to pray.I will send a longer post to tell you about what has been happening later but it is late and I really need to get to bed.
We had hoped our court date would have been Monday. ?_It was not and today it didn't happen either.
This really pushes us now to get done before we leave on the 27th. ?_
So.. prayer #1
Court date on Wed. and ruling given on Thursday morning. Passport issued by Thursday.

We didn't hear from Charles, A&A's attorney yesterday either but he called tonight and said the Prime Minister's office is giving him the run around, ?_Letter is written but he can't find the right person who needs to sign it. ?_He is going to see another man tomorrow about it.

So... prayer #2
Pray that A&A's passports will be issued by Thursday Morning.

I am homesick and had a cry session this morning really missing the kids and from their emails and IM's, they are missing me.
So..... Prayer# 3
Pray for us all to hang in there.

When passports (in faith) are given we will rush them to the US Embassy to get Visas and pray they are granted before Tuesday afternoon. (Monday is a Holiday) so we lose a day.
so....Prayer #4
Pray for quick issuance of visas after passports

Every circumstance points to "It is not gonna happen", but.....
we serve a big God who works miracles and we are trusting Him to move govt. officials to get the kids home and all of us to be together in one place. God has been giving us scripture all day today to tell us Be joyful. Rejoice, I am working on your behalf, though you can't see it. ?_
So..... Prayer #5
Pray for a miracle for all three kids!

Thanks so much for all your prayers,
Melissa

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