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Sunday, February 21, 2010
GET OUT OF THE BOAT
So I am reading in John Ortberg's book - "IF YOU WANT TO WALK ON WATER, YOU'VE GOT TO GET OUT OF THE BOAT", mainly because yesterday morning, Isaiah wanted to get out of bed before me and he was rummaging through the books on the shelf and pulled out this one and threw it at me!
(God has many different ways of getting your attention) :)
Anyway I began reading and realized that this is something that God has been teaching Duane and I over this past year and months.
I revisited the story of Peter walking on the water in the first chapter and a light bulb went on.
In a way it is the same message that I put on my status earlier in the week that God is interested in the process. This was just another puzzle piece.
I am going to copy a few paragraphs that made so much sense to me in this time of my life. It shed light on some of the reason Duane and I are going through some things right now. I found it profound in my life, maybe someone else will too.
I quote from his book:
"When Jesus came to the disciples out on the water.... he was revealing His divine presence and power. ....It is interesting that the disciples entered the boat in the first place at Jesus' command. They would have to learn--as do we-- that obedience is no guarantee of being spared adversity. But now that storm had their full attention,Jesus decided it was time the disciples got to know a little bit more about the guy who was piloting this thing.
"Its like this dudes", he reassured them. " You can trust me. You know my character and competence. You can safely place your destiny in my hand. Take courage it's me."... Matthew wants his readers to know that Jesus often comes when least expected--3am - in the middle of a storm..... 12 disciple sat in that boat, and we don't know how eleven of them responded to that voice. But one of them , Peter, was about to become a water walker. He recognized God was present- even in the most unlikely place. He realized that this was an extraordinary opportunity for spiritual adventure and growth. So he got an idea. He decided to do something religious. Peter blurted out, "If it is you, command me to come to you on the water."... This story is not about risk-taking, it is primarily a story about OBEDIENCE.
That means I will have to discern between an authentic call from God or what simply might be a foolish impulse on my part. Courage alone is not enough; it must be accompanied by wisdom and discernment. .... Put yourself in Peter's place for a moment. You have a sudden insight into what Jesus is doing- the Lord is passing by. He's inviting you to go on the adventure of your life. but at the same time, you're scared to death. What would you choose-- the water or the boat? The boat is safe, secure and comfortable. On the other hand, the water is rough. The waves are high. The wind is strong. There's a storm out there. And if you get out of the boat-- whatever your boat might happen to be-- there's a good chance you might sink.
... I believe there is something- Someone- inside us who tells us there is more to life than sitting in the boat. You were made for something more than merely avoiding failure. There is something inside of you that wants to walk on the water-- to leave the comfort of routine existence and abandon yourself to the high adventure of following God."
I WANT TO BE A WATER WALKER. I WANT TO ASK JESUS, "COMMAND ME TO COME TO YOU"
Monday, February 15, 2010
Time to Think and Pray
One day I was praying and thinking about a lot of things and asking God questions. I think He gave me a little insight and I debated on sharing it here as I am running the risk of others thinking completely different. I think though I will share part of what I had been pondering. These are my thoughts and my opinions and what I believe God spoke to me about.
Below is some of what I wrote:
"What God revealed to me was that maybe the Church has gotten everything backwards. We have been told by God that we were to do things differently, but what has happened is that though we started out with good intentions, we have only ended up as just the same church doing churchy stuff.
A lot of us are frustrated in our church as we can see and feel the “religious spirit” (just like the Pharisees) creeping back in and it seems our churches are stagnant. Why is nothing moving? What is this feeling of, “ hey something is not right, but what is it? What are we supposed to be doing that is different than any other church? We look like other churches. We meet on Sundays and have our little groups but where is the outreach as a whole?
Where are we impacting the world? The community? We are no different than the churches from the past. We have spent our money on ourselves, to give us a place to meet, to give our children a place to play and our youth a place to hang out. But what have we done to reach the individual that needs to know the Father?
Yes, we have given to missions and yes, individuals have done things for others but really what impact are we making? We can’t even get people to work within the church. no one wants to commit. Nobody is even calling others when they see a gift in them. We preach about old wine skins and new wine skins, we talk about rebuilding the walls and being repairers of broken people but we are all talk and no action and it is frustrating.
What kingdom principles are we facilitating?.....
This has bothered me for some time but I haven’t been able to see what it is that has bothered me. I didn’t know what it was. I love the body of Christ and know God wants us involved with them but I was sensing we were not right. Something was amiss.
Wouldn't it be radical to put on the billboard outside of our coffee house once it is opened up,
“WE HAVE STOPPED HAVING SUNDAY SERVICES FOR OURSELVES BUT WE ARE OFFERING YOU FRIENDSHIP AND A LATTE’ ANYTIME”.
I’m sure it wouldn’t sit well with some people. I would love to see churches, including ours as a place where the community won’t see it as a religious place but a “third place” .
There has been research done that shows that the human race has places in their lives that are where they live. It is places where they go almost every day to connect to others.
It is the places where they form relationships and they see these places as their ”home”. These places define their lives. Usually, FIRST PLACE is their home and family, SECOND is their work and THIRD used to be the church, but in today’s society, the church has drifted out of that place and other places like coffee shops and bars have taken its place.
Why? Because the church forgot about relationships with individual people. Why do you think the show “Friends” became so popular? Why was “Cheers” so popular? Because everybody craved those kinds of friendships. Everybody really wants to be where somebody knows their name. They want a place they can go to meet their friends, chill out and be transparent. They want friends who stick by you no matter what. The church used to be that place but somewhere along the road it stopped being the place people longed to go . Even church goers quit because they felt lonely. I myself have felt so alone in the church, even considering quitting myself.
So finally the light shown on my frustration. So why did God show me?
Intercession, My friend said. "Ok, I can do that." But then she said something I hadn’t thought of before. Sometimes, Intercession is not only prayer. Sometimes it is interceding with your actions. Wow! I have never thought of that before. I have only heard of it as prayer. She told me to pray about it. Intercede in action only when you have heard God tell you to. ....... What would God have me do to be a catalyst??
I found this all interesting and have continued pondering it.